[ duit hantaran + barang2 hantaran ]

ok this is the adat part.and at first,we decided not to have the dulang2 and not to disclose hantaran amount untuk tidak mendatangkan rasa ingin bermegah2/riak/membazir and all. tapi hati dan kehendak ibu bapa perlu di jaga juga bukan? so we opt for the minimum 5 berbalas 7.

* him to me *
1. kasut - bought @ raoul
2. handbag + purse - purse bought @ mulberry. handbag STILL SAVING FOR IT :p
3. telekung/sejadah - bought @ jakarta
4. ring + sirih junjung
5. parfum set - cousin sponsored :D

* me to him *
1. kasut - bought at adidas.oh yes we buy what we gonna wear/use :D
2. ps3
3. his football team's new jersey - tempahing.
4. parfum set - cousin sponsored :D
5. ring + wallet
6. sirih junjung
7. cake/fruits

im gonna use the dulang that i already have & do the hantaran deco myself,obviously :)

with regards to "duit hantaran",we still plan not to disclose it but for the last few nikah ceremony i/we have attended,the tok kadi actually tanya bout the amount before the nikahkan the bride & groom.

anyone else actually plan not to disclose the amount? can we actually do it sebenarnya? and how to "kawtim" dengan tok kadi not to ask eh? hehe